What to you is unforgivable? cheating? fighting someone? betrayal?
The reason I ask is because my ex girlfriend and I used to be great friends. We never once fought in all the time I've known her. Then about a month ago she left me for her ex boyfriend. This was the biggest act of betrayal to me as I had done so much for her and loved her very much. Now I feel nothing but loathing for her. She wants to still be friends as I had promised we would be should we ever break up. But she lied to me and used me until her ex got back. I can never forgive her for this.

So sharenator what do you believe is unforgivable? And do you think I should try and forgive her ever?

I just wanted to say that she is the one that almost all the poems I've wrote and posted on here are for and she is the reason I've felt so bad for the past month and a half

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  • 6

    man up and do a big shit on her face when she's asleep. job done.

    • Dannyl
    • January 17, 2011, 2:11 pm
    - miketehpope November 4, 2011, 1:59 pm
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    unforgivable is when your girl breaks up with you and then a week later sleeps with your best friend, not to start a relationship, just sleeps with him and then moves on and starts dating some other guy... and then your exbest friend doesn't have the balls to admit it when you ask him after she tells you.... there are some circumstances regarding her, but for him that is some straight bullshit and if i could i would put him in the ground, permanently... he's sposed to be my boy and have my back, trusted that bitchass snake with my life overseas, and this is what im getting in return...

    what a fucker.
    - CaptinCrunk January 17, 2011, 7:35 pm
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    Betrayal to me is when someone doesn't keep their promises, or when they turn their back on you when you need them the most.
    If what they did changed you deeply or made you feel like shit/dying then what they did is unforgivable.
    And this is just my opinion..
    But HELL NO don't forgive her.
    What she did is what we call a "hoe move".(Look it up)
    You can do better then that- so there. D:<

  • 3

    To me hurting children is the most unforgivible thing you can do. Acording to harry potter world Cruciatus Curse , the Imperius Curse and Avada Kedavra are unfogivable.
    As for your problem with your ex I vote you just say fuck it, I'm over this I don't want to deal with this shit. From what I've seen on sharenator I'd say she was lucky to have you. One day she will look back at her life and see she fucked up a good thing. Try to forget about her spend some time with your real friends, go see a comedian or a funny move. There is more to life then that bitch.
    One day you'll find someone who you love who loves you back.

    • ember
    • January 17, 2011, 2:08 pm
    thanks I'm def going to do that I'm sick of trying for her and I'm done with feeling pain about this and I want to move on more than anything in the world right now.
    - 24paperwings January 17, 2011, 2:19 pm
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    For me unforgivable is when someone takes the last slice of a Three Meat Treat pizza

    D: the bastards!
    - 24paperwings November 4, 2011, 12:31 pm
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    0 - unforgivable

    - Firebird92 January 18, 2011, 11:49 am
  • 1

    Blank her. Very simple, but very powerful to do.

    • Bekenel
    • January 17, 2011, 1:17 pm
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    I agree with HeartlessAngel.

    The worst is when your always there for your friends, you lend them a hand when they need it, & you give the advice or say the words they need to hear. Yet when your getting jumped or some asshole hits you out of the blue all of your friends seem to think about their own safety & seem to forget everything you've done for them. They run with out hesitation & seem to not look back, giving up on you so easily.

    I hate the feeling of depending on someone, for that reason. I fend for myself for that reason!

  • 1

    i have one form me and one from my friend
    my friend
    he got his first girl friend they were happy together then some dumb ass that was his friend said that he was talkin shit about her so she dumbed him then with in a month the girl the kid asked her out and she said yes.
    i was about 5 are 6. some girl said that she had no friends so i decided to be her friend i realized that it was because she was shy thats why she didn't have any friends some after a bout a year are 2 she went to being a bitch to me and stopped being my friend because she now was to fuckin roly to talk to me cause she had got a new friend and she thought that i was still acting like i was her friend even though i wasn't

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    when you lose everything the only thing you can rely on is your word and the word of others. breaking your word is the only unforgivable act as far as i'm concerned. if you say you're going to do something, do it. if you said you could be her friend afterwards, be her friend. but if she breaks hers then its fair game. i vote cut the brakes on her current BF car... then when she comes back to you crying and all say "we're not friends anymore, go away."

    • January 17, 2011, 6:16 pm
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    Nothing is unforgivable. Some things just take more time to heal.

    But I agree with ember on the solution. He (or she? sorry) put it better than I would have, actually.

  • 1

    When you have something in the fridge clearly marked with your name, and some penis-face eats it anyway. Unforgivable!

  • 1

    I find child abuse and molestation, assaulting women, and betrayal to be unforgivable. If I were in your position I would get even in the most psychologically torturous way I could, but what you should do is listen to ember.

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    • hightec
    • January 18, 2011, 12:28 pm
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    Let it go...Just walk away..

  • 1

    telling best way is just let it go new friends can be made, she do this to you once and she'll do it agian bra

    yea this was like a year ago and i was in a rough place trust me im well over her now but thanks for the advice lol
    - 24paperwings November 4, 2011, 12:30 pm
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    Disloyalty is definitely unforgivable. There are different levels however. Was it the only time she lied to you? Yeah, it was pretty bad but it could be an isolated incident.

    On second thought though, she sounds like the type of girl that would try to keep you on the hook just in case things don't work out with her ex again.

    Blow that chick a kiss good-bye and book it.

    basically what she had tried to do. she tried to come back into my life this summer by, and i kid you not, asking my friend if she could still hang out with me because she missed all the good times with me and my friends... she didn't even ask me to my face lmao in any case im well over her i have a new girlfriend and i will not be going anywhere near this girl if i can help it. im not an ass to her but i will not talk to her unless i don't have a choice. so in the end im glad that little bitch (pardon my language but thats what she is) is out of my life. im happier now than i ever was with her :)
    - 24paperwings November 4, 2011, 3:05 pm
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    Oh, shut up you sad, sad git. This is the interweb, if you want a real nice girl then go and get yourself a real life. Dont waste your time on here feeling sorry for yourself

    it wasn't me feeling sorry for myself and an explanation for why i made those poems as wells as an example of what i considered to be unforgivable.
    - 24paperwings January 17, 2011, 7:01 pm
    ...Seriously? You've got things a bit backwards there. The net is the first place most people go for support, if only because their problems are easier to talk about here. I don't care where it is, if someone needs help, someone needs help.
    - luminosity January 17, 2011, 7:16 pm
    - MIKYTEY February 17, 2011, 3:10 am
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