So there's this dude.

Lemme' explain a couple things.

1) He says he loves me, constantly.
2) He says he loves me more than a friend.
(Here's the shocker)
3) He's got a girlfriend.

Now, what's so goddamn confusing about this is that:
1) He knows the feelings are mutual between us.
2) He says, "You're so much better than my girlfriend." or "I love you more than her." and things like that constantly.
3) He's my best friend.
4) He won't do anything about the feelings we both have.

I really do have strong feelings for him, but this is so damn stressful! I have no idea what to do. Should I just confront him and tell him, "For god's sake, ditch your chick already. You know you'd be happier with me." or just wait it out? Or some other alternative?


I hate being a teenager.

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  • 14

    oooh girl, you need to ditch that zero and find yo-self a hero.

    hahah holy shit the cheesiness of that made me laugh
    - thekitkatkid December 27, 2010, 8:31 pm
    That just made my day.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 9:30 pm
    mmmmmmm taste that cheesy goodness lol
    - Jabori December 28, 2010, 2:10 pm
  • 7

    At the end of the day you need to remember that this guy is already with a girl and if he's saying this to you now, then what's to say he might not do this to someone else if you guys get together? I'm not blaming you, because at the end of the day he's the one in a relationship already not you. Just if he's doing this while in a relationship with someone else, who's to say if they do split and you get together he won't start on another girl this way?

    • SuDoku
    • December 27, 2010, 11:16 pm
    same way I thought of it, just couldn't put it into words.
    - thekitkatkid December 27, 2010, 11:20 pm
    Ah, hate how true that is. :(
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 11:24 pm
    I know, sucks being a teenager lol. Thank God I'm nearly out of it :D
    - SuDoku December 28, 2010, 12:25 am
    Lucky. :)
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 12:53 am
    I know :) now all I have to worry about is how to pay for everything ;)
    - SuDoku December 28, 2010, 1:38 am
    everything you said can be summed up with "if they will do it with you they will do it to you" just sayin and good advice either way
    - Jabori December 28, 2010, 2:11 pm
  • 4

    In return for the lols in this post, I shall offer (probably flawed) advice.

    Tell him to stop stringing you along. Unless he intends to leave his current girlfriend in a timely manner, tell him to stop saying that he loves you.

    Thanks man!

    +1 for you.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 7:13 pm
    - 24paperwings December 27, 2010, 7:52 pm
    How did you get italics?
    - ExtremePrejudice December 27, 2010, 10:25 pm
    Probably code.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:27 pm
    Fuck! How did you do that ?
    - ExtremePrejudice December 27, 2010, 10:28 pm
    < i> text here, plz. </ i>

    Without the spaces, of course.

    Like this;D

    Plus bold, which is like the I, but with a B. Lowercase, plz.

    < b> text here. </ b>


    or both!
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:32 pm
    FUCK YEAH! Thanks!
    - ExtremePrejudice December 27, 2010, 10:37 pm
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:40 pm
    thank you for educating the masses
    - drakengard85 December 28, 2010, 12:40 pm
    Any time, man. Any time.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 3:02 pm
  • 2

    well im a guy and im sorta in the same situation your in so no luck
    but try to tell him this "It's either me or her"

    • gryxng
    • December 27, 2010, 7:22 pm
    Didn't think about that...thanks!
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 7:25 pm
    anytime mackenz
    - gryxng December 27, 2010, 7:33 pm
  • 2

    That gif will never stop being funny.

    That's why it's there, brotato chip.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:30 pm
    She probably did something to deserve that
    - papereeno December 27, 2010, 10:44 pm
    O.o huh?

    *is confused*
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:46 pm
    The chick in the gif
    - papereeno December 27, 2010, 10:47 pm
    OH. I knew that.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 27, 2010, 10:50 pm
    - papereeno December 27, 2010, 10:53 pm
  • 2

    in regards to your last post,it doesn't bother me but ur not allowed to post that kind of stuff even if u give a fair warning sorry. TERMS OF SERVICE

    Eh. If the thread gets deleted, I don't really care.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 12:54 am
    just letting you know so in the future you don't post something along those lines. no hard feeling?
    - thekitkatkid December 28, 2010, 1:48 am
    'course not!:D
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 3:02 pm
    - thekitkatkid December 28, 2010, 3:09 pm
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 3:10 pm
  • 2

    Start to play World of Warcraft.
    No love problems,
    No work problems,
    No money problems.
    No life ^_^

    • Absint
    • December 28, 2010, 12:48 am
    ...I already do play WoW. ^_^
    Well, used to.
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 12:54 am
    I have a girlfriend, but in the last period we have some problems, because I've started University in another town.. So we can stay togheter only in the weekend. Ofc another problem is that at University I start to know a lot of people, so it's hard to go along with a relationship in this conditions... At the end I have decided to stay with my girlfriend anyway. So I think this guy have only to teka a decision.
    Now sorry but I've to try finish this fucking Grim Batol U.U
    - Absint December 28, 2010, 1:10 am
    SSSS. Bummer.
    That's gotta be rough. :/
    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 3:03 pm
  • 2

    hes got others on his mind rather than his own, he doesnt sound like much of a dude to me :|

    there was a post a few days back asking sharenatorers to post a pic of themselves, yoo did, and to me yoo look like a girl who's got people begging at your feet for yoo! dont let this bub get in your way :P

    Yeah, I know, but it's just like: Damn. Cuz we're really...compatable. I think I spelled that wrong, but whatever.

    And thanks bro, that's nice of you. I wish though, ha:D


    - mackenzieBizzatch December 28, 2010, 3:05 pm
  • 1

    ditch the person or ask the person which do you pick


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