A Few Questions To Ask Anybody.

I appologize in advance, for some of these are crude in content.

1. Has anyone been online searching for porn, but instead ended up surfing Sharenator until you're too exhausted to move?

2. Have you ever been to a site enough where they run out of porn. Ie: You've seen EVERYTHING that you're attracted to, and you have to wait impatiently for new ones to see.

3. You all know Pedobear, right? (You SHOULD...) Anyways, I'm curious as to what his reactions toward Infantilism are. Or, if not that, rather Child Play. [Both are valid and legal sexual/lifestyle fetishes]

4. How do you MOVE ON from a relationship? I have nobody for help, and it's getting closer and closer to the two year mark that we had our first kiss. (Sorry, I'm a romanticist and the first kiss is always the most essential and important kiss). She is telling me to move on, but I still love her like the day we met. I also have gained the ability to NO LONGER gain emotions for anyone else. I've had 2 relationships and I've had to end them because I cannot feel like I like them.

Also, If you MUST ask, none of these were sexual relationships in anyway. The furthest anyone has gotten was making out.

You might be interested


Reply Attach
  • 1

    1) No.
    2) No. I think you seem to be obsessing over porn here.
    3) Pedobear is pedobear, don't question his motives.
    4) This is a tough one. But you gotta move on, it's not healthy to dwell over a failed relationship. If I was still obsessing over my first kiss I'd live a very sad life indeed.. Just sayin'. Get out there and have fun, in a very non-go out and make out with everyone you meet-sense. But you're young. Don't go for anything serious yet.

    • SuDoku
    • August 16, 2011, 12:57 pm
    You make it sound as if I were 15, I'm actually turning 21. The thing is, I made a mistake... It was 2 years ago that we ended our relationship. It lasted 6 months, so it actually JUST passed the kiss. Sorry, screwing up information like that changes quite a bit of the situation.

    The question directly was: How do you move on? Namely becase nobody can really answer that.
    - LaMountain August 16, 2011, 2:20 pm
    I'm not trying to make you sound like you're 15, I meant generally, and generalising on the ages of people on here, you're still young, go out and enjoy yourself. I'm just about to turn 19 in the next few days, and I came out of a 3 year relationship and realised how much I'd actually missed out on, and I've only just literally gone back into one after 8 months. Yeah, I don't love the guy, but I like him enough to want to go out with him and want to spend time with him, but, you don't know what those feelings might develop into. Give it a chance :)
    - SuDoku August 16, 2011, 2:25 pm
    Give what a chance? Other people? I REALLY would, but how can feelings develop into something more when you don't have any in the first place? I need to get to KNOW somebody before I can even attempt to go out with them, and I need to have a relationship with them before I morally allow myself to do anything physical.
    - LaMountain August 16, 2011, 2:29 pm
    I believe you've answered your own question. You DO need to get to KNOW someone first. You can't just pick some cute chick that you've met before to start dating. I'm not sure if that's exactly what you're doing, but the way you're explaining seems to make this explanation fit. You need to go out and meet people, get to know them. In time, you will get to know someone well enough that those feelings will start to develop on their own. Feelings don't just randomly show up because you talked to a cute girl, they come around as more of a sudden realization. After you've been spending some time getting to know this girl, then you may find yourself crushing on her and eventually you'll find those feelings creeping away from your ex and moving towards someone else.
    - Disco August 16, 2011, 2:43 pm
    Okay. THANK YOU. Now, that's more of the answer I was looking for. Don't get me wrong, SuDoku, you had some good points, but Disco seems to have summed up what I was seeking.

    It's a hard question to answer. Even harder to put into action. But alas, now I have a definate reason.
    - LaMountain August 16, 2011, 2:47 pm
Related Posts